Monday, January 09, 2006
Its juz 9 days of yr 2006 and so much things happened. Some are things that I feel happy for my frenz. Some are very disheartening news.
Reallie happy for my frenz when she sms me to inform mi abt the end of her relationship wif her then boyfriend. Not that i'm mean or wad. Its juz that she's totally unhappy being in that relationshop anymore. She's always in pain and forever complaining to me abt it. When I recieved that sms, I can sense how much joy and happiness she feel. Finally after almost 2 yrs of suffering, everything ended. Welcome to single hood, Yanling!!!! =)
Another case was something that I cant reallie help at all as I totally dont haf any experience on it at all. Marriage problem. My frenz felt neglected by her hubby. And was having all sorts of negatives thoughts to the verge of seperation. Sometimes I reallie wonder is that the correct way to solve problems. Maybe so if u know that you haf tried hard enuff to make the relationship work but everything still seems to be wrong ba. But all that I heard was 1 sided story. I dunno if they are reallie true coz when one is in depression or angry wif another person, only negative stuff come out fr his/her mouth. So, I tried ways to make her think if her hubby is still worthwhile for her. Trying to highlight or remind her how gd he can be to her. I also dunno this is the correct way to help her. Wondering if this will make things worse or reallie help her understand n see things from another pt of view. But at least she's seeing light now. =)
Conclusion, she's reallie too emotional attached to her hubby. Everything little thing he did, will affect her. Haiz...Does it mean that one shldnt put in so much in a relationship??? Then, even if anything happen, you also wont feel so miserable.
Next is one of my super duper gd frenz as well. Haf being trying my best to accompany her recently. She's totally troubled over her feeling for a guy. Troubled over whether to give up or to let him know. She finally decided to let him know a few days ago. The guy didnt say anything much when he got news of it. This make her feel reallie reallie bad n depressed. Izzit my fault to encourage her to tell him? Izzit my fault??? Izzit?????? I dunno. But its like making thing hang there will only make her feel more n more miserable ba. That's wad I think. Sorry ger... =(
I sound like a love consultant isnt it???Haahaha... How I wish I'm one lorz. Dr. Nua...haahaa...
1st, can settle my problem.
2nd, easy earn $$.
3rd, I can learn fr other's experiences.
8:15 PM